On March 22, 2016, we published the story of the time Desiree tried to “induce a miscarriage” 5 months into her pregnancy with hers and Patrick’s son (The Time I Tried to Induce a Miscarriage at 5 Months).
But let’s not sugar coat it. Let’s call a spade a spade. An “attempt to induce a miscarriage” is really nothing more than a pleasant way of saying an “attempt at a do-it-yourself, home abortion”. Originally, we chose to use the term “miscarriage” because we thought “abortion” might evoke some strong emotions in some readers. But, given Desiree’s reaction to that story, we really, really find it so hard to have any compassion for that horrendous monster of a human being.
Any decent person, whether a parent or not, having done something so atrocious, would be compelled by a sense of guilt and remorse, to acknowledge it and to try to make it right – if nothing else, to express their remorse to the person affected by her actions (i.e. her son) and plead for his forgiveness.
But Desiree is incapable of experiencing remorse or guilt. And, she has never – and never will, accept responsibility for her actions.
In that post, we clearly stated that if the story was, in fact, not true it would be the easiest thing in the world for Desiree to prove. All she would have to do is obtain the records of the Harbor-UCLA Medical Center visit. Yet, she refuses to do that. What she did, instead, was the day after the story was published, her and her fiancé, James Pendleton, hired an attorney to file a frivolous and pointless motion in the appeal of their restraining order cases. In that motion, Desiree claims that the story is a lie, and says:
It is hard to imagine anything more harassing or intimidating than a graphic and untrue description of a mother attempting to kill her unborn child.
And, what is even more telling is that the law firm they hired, Haralson, Miller, Pitt, Feldman & McAnally, specializes is personal injury, and business law – in particular, defamation! Defamation is exactly what Desiree is claiming the story is – in fact, she’s claiming this entire website is defamatory. She recently went on national news, both in the US and in Canada, and claimed the only reason she hasn’t filed a defamation suit against Patrick is because she can’t afford the legal fees – yet, she can afford to hire an attorney to try to keep her irrelevant order of protection from being vacated? Clearly we see where her priorities are.
So, it would seem very likely Desiree and James retained this attorney to try to bring a defamation suit against Patrick, but since there is no false information about her or James on this site, because the story of her attempt to self-abort her pregnancy is actually true and can be proven with the medical records, the attorney told them they don’t have a case for defamation.
We believe Desiree’s refusal to do the incredibly easy task of simply calling the hospital is all the proof the world needs that the story is true. That 5 months into her pregnancy with her son she tried to give herself an abortion by repeatedly hitting herself in the stomach for no reason other than she was mad because of something Patrick had said. And that as a direct result of her selfish and disgusting actions, their son was born 3 months premature, had respiratory complications most of his childhood, and is blind in one eye.
And having done such a revolting thing to a poor, helpless, innocent baby, what is Desiree’s reaction? Remorse? Guilt? Compassion for the child she permanently, physically injured? No! Her reaction is to deny it, to blame it on others, and to go on the offensive against the people that are simply speaking the truth about her – exactly what would be expected from a sociopath/psychopath.
Their son is now 15 years old and recently found out he will never be able to have a driver’s license because of the blindness.
Perhaps next time we’ll talk about the time Desiree tried to sell that same son when he was only 3 months old.