Some folks have speculated what it must be like for Desiree’s fiancé, James Pendleton, amidst all this silliness. And that got me wondering “Indeed. What must it be like for ol’ James?”
We have to assume, when Desiree and James first started seeing each other he knew about this website. And, of course, Desiree insisted everything on this site was “all lies”, as she does. And, of course, James believed her. It’s apparent from James’ comments at the Order of Protection hearing back in December 2015 (James Pendleton’s (and His Mommy’s) Testimony at the Restraining Order Hearing), that even at that point he still believed everything on this site was lies and that I was just broken hearted and obsessed with Desiree because she left me so many years ago.
But since we’ve started adding all these supporting documents over the past few months, surely James must be starting to question whether it’s really “all lies”. Surely he must be wondering how much of what Desiree’s been telling him is actually true.
I’m fairly certain Desiree told James the stories of her being a stripper and having sex with men who pay her were false. I’m sure she enthusiastically denied those claims. But now that the Pinellas County Sheriff’s report of her arrest has been made public, does he really still believe her? Can he still believe her? Is she really that good?
And we all know she vehemently denies the story about the time she tried to give herself an abortion. But what reason does she give him when he asks her why she doesn’t just get the records from the hospital? Does he even ask her? Is he so infatuated with her that it doesn’t even occur to him to wonder about such things?
I mean, even someone with absolutely no self esteem at all must, at some point, begin to realize that the bitch has been lying about everything! Right?
And James must know that even though his friends and his family are being nice to his face, of course, they’re talking behind his back, laughing at him. Most people won’t laugh at you to your face – they’ll wait till you leave the room then have a good snicker.
And how difficult it must be for James to be taken seriously by prospective employers and clients when they know he intends to marry Desiree Capuano. I wonder if James also tries to convince people that everything on this site is lies. I wonder if those people tell him he’s a fool to his face or if they wait until he leaves the room.
And how much harder it must be for James, thinking that if only Desiree would let her son go live with his father then all of this would go away.
Is it really possible that a person would have such low self esteem, that they would think so little of themselves, that they would delude themselves into believing Desiree is truly the best they can do?
Hmm?!?! How surreal it must be to be James Pendleton. Caught in the vortex that is the endless stream of bullshit that is Desiree Capuano’s life.